Hi,
I'm quite the gregarious dude — the length of this response may give that away. I love em-dashes and am convinced their usage must have some correlation with ADHD. I enjoy watching documentaries, listening to music (records or Spotify normally), studying languages (I speak German as a 2nd, very basic Russian, and am working on learning some Swedish for the hell of it). I affectionally refer to my as "sweet pea," "bubba," or "muffinhead." I enjoy good food but I'm not sure I'd call myself a "foodie" — a bit too much of a hipster stigma that surrounds that word for me. This totally conflicts with my upbringing, having parents who work in the wine industry.
If you're weirded out by disabled people or are not open to being even friends with people with physical impairments, we won't likely become fast friends. I had a spinal cord injury in 2018 that kind of fucked me up for a couple years but I feel I am making strides (in a purely metaphorical sense) xD Laughter is the best medicine. I am independent and don't need a nurse or caregiver, so if that is a concern, there you go. People often wonder this, so I'll go ahead and say it — yes, men with spinal cord injuries can have sex. It's a bit different but still fun. This misconception about impotence and asexualization of the disabled is something I hope will fade with time but it's still pretty dominant and at times incredibly aggravating — especially when dating.
What else ... I like self-aware folks, who can admit to having fucked up before and realize they're likely to do so again at some point. The sanctimonious douchebags of the alt right and far left, who don't seem to have any sense of perspective or notion that their experience isn't everyone's experience is something that really bums me out on America, so plz don't be part of that crowd. If it matters to you, I'm left of center politically speaking.
Not religious and I am against indoctrinating because I think religion is highly personal and I'm not sure it's even a choice a parent should be making for their . will start asking themselves the "why are we here/what is existence/is this even real/what is real?" questions soon enough. Everyone has to answer that one for themselves. I know if I ever have , they'll more than likely develop some form of existential dread around 15–16. If you're still here, great! :)
My Ideal Person I suppose someone who can think for themselves, is empathetic, and it's romancesdiscretos.com so yeah someone, who is a freak in the sheets would also make the wish list.