Older gentleman looking for a lover who will enjoy watching porn and trying naughty things. I am also a romantic who reads sonnets at the Ren Faire on Weekends and rows 5 days a week in Long Beach. I like a simple life, but am tired of being a monk.

My Ideal Person 'm a straight older gentleman interested in meeting and worshiping the goddess in every woman, which ever form of the goddess she takes or desires worship. I want a lover so comfortable with sex that she wants to watch porn with me and shop for lingerie in front of me.

I'm looking for someone who can be discreet because I have a profession in the public eye, teaching, and my daughter has left home for college back in August.

I don't consider myself kinky, but I do love women in lingerie, and I love the taste of women. I have not done a lot of oral anal play, but I would like to try that both giving and receiving. Also, after reading some stories, I think I want to try eating a cream pie from my partner; not sure if I will like it, but want to try.

The only taboos I have in the bedroom are scat, blood, damage-physical or psychic, un-pleasureable pain. I do respect boundaries and am willing to respect the ones you communicate.

As far as I'm concerned, the best place to have sex is on a bed, but bath tubs are fun, and shower floors are interesting, but slippery and can be hard on knees; the beach-sand gets uncomfortable; living rooms are fun as long as rug burns are avoided; kitchen counters do need that thorough cleaning after, and hard surfaces are always a challenge on soft tissue----different places are fun to try, but bodies need to be taken care of.

Extramarital affairs do not interest me; they look exciting, but I would never want my relationship damaged that way, so I do not want to add to the toxicity of the world. I think I can wrap my old-fashioned head around open and polyamorous relationships, but I would probably need coaching.

My feelings on one-night stands are they are a little frustrating as it takes a while to learn the sensual geography of a sexual partner, but on the other hand, the meet-the climax-move along with out attachment has its own attraction.

Sensuality - like touching and candles and massage is an important part of sex.

I love my climax and ejaculation, and it is a delight when it comes during penetration, but it often marks the end, so I like to push it off, as long as possible because there is so much pleasure to be had from the taste, aroma, and feel of a woman, and when you share your pleasure with me, I feel that pleasure, so lets focus on sharing pleasure.