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rm_4karen 47 C
3  Articles
Help me out with this one!   1/6/2004

OK to start off with, we are a couple. And you can plainly see that when you look at our profile. So here is the thing that really bothers me. I will click on a Females profile, because we are looking for females. It will start off describing herself, then start describing her boyfriend or her husband. I don't get it! Why can't you advertise yourself as a couple, instead of a woman? ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
rm_mine1210 45 M
1  Article
Is this for real?   1/4/2004

I have ben on romancesdiscretos.com for a little while now. I have written e-mails. Tried to contact people, etc. etc. All of this was done too no avail. I have 2 pics posted, and just dont understand it. Now im not the best looking guy in the world, but I'm not that bad either. Can someone please tell me if this place is for real, or just a scam?


0 Comments, 113 Views, 47 Votes ,8.94 Score
catshot1 67 M
1  Article
That's All Folks!   1/3/2004

5 days and counting until I will not longer subsidize romancesdiscretos.com. Thought is was a good idea at the time, but after two consecutive memberships, no more money will be wasted on a site that offers nothing but a few titillating pictures and a ton of frauds. Anyone reading this would do well to not join and spend the money on anything else. Totally disappointed doesn't even come close.


0 Comments, 49 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
No Thanks   1/2/2004

I've only been here for a short while, but i've noticed when you send someone an email, 9 times out of 10 you don't get any response. How about just a quick "No Thanks" or "Not interested" or anything?


0 Comments, 1 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
Re:Face Picks   1/2/2004

I also do not post any face pics. I don't want anyone who may know me know that I am looking. Your profile gets more attention if you have pics, so the 2nd best thing is to show what you have, not who you are.


0 Comments, 13 Views, 8 Votes ,1.62 Score
slanbert69 57 M
1  Article
So what I'm seeing here...   1/2/2004

Is a clear failure to communicate. Most of these articles are from women who are complaining of the men who are responding to their ads. Are the complaining that they are getting too much attention, or are they complaining that the are not taking theinitative and turning the tables to fill the guy's mailboxes with inquiries? Life is all about give and take. Seems there is a lot of ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
rm_fitfirm37 50 M
6  Articles
Fake Photos!!!!   1/2/2004

I'm not a full member yet because I see to many photos that look fake. If I was able to find out more about the person then I would join. I've been a member on other sites and it was a waste of money because of fakes. Are these staged by the web site or what?


0 Comments, 11 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
rm_johnbig7 60 M
11  Articles
Are all women out there bisexual ?   1/1/2004

I have been a member of this site for some time.When using the instant message site one night I noticed that approximately 80% of the women who use this site are bisexual and are looking for women only.Why dont you include a section for bisexual women as you have with gay couples or are bisexual women afraid to call themselves GAY Maybe then, us men who are looking to meet up with straight ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
craztime 36 M
1  Article
Anti-Bot Confirmation Numbers: Useless?   12/31/2003

I wonder... do those distorted images of words and numbers that you have to type in to prove you're really a human really work? Yahoo! uses these confirmation numbers before they give you an account and romancesdiscretos.com uses them before they let you email someone, but do they really work? <br> Apparently the distortion is enough to confuse a computer/OCR but why are there still spammers on ...


0 Comments, 0 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
rm_FullFigure1 67 F
11  Articles
Re: romancesdiscretos.com didn't delete anything.   12/31/2003

romancesdiscretos.com didn't delete anything out of their set-up. The section that you want is in the "More Topics". That has all the different topics ... like fantasies, likes and dislikes, etc.


0 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Get a FUCKNG CLUE!   12/30/2003

Single guys, the title of this article says it all! We just received a response from a single man. Our profile specifically says, "If we are interested in you, we will get in touch with YOU." Okay, this guy might indeed be a nice guy, but here's the deal: This guys wants to fuck my wife, yet he sends no picture, the subject line of his response reads, "Sounds good, " and the message ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
Does Anyone Respond   12/30/2003

I enrolled into this site and all I have done is send mails out. I receieved alerts saying I have mail and was thrilled however when I look into the inbox there were a bunch of Auto replies which said we shall get back to you. Its been nearly a month and no response at all from the profiles that matched 100%. Whats up ? Don't people know that its only decent to reply? Send out just one ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_Clay69XXX 63 M
2  Articles
Furry Bush - To Be or Not To Be   12/30/2003

OK I consider myself a connoisseur of fine pussy … aren’t we all. Not that I have expertise over anyone else … I just luv pussie. So as my boss used to say at work ‒ Have you ever seen an ugly pussie? Of course discounting any diseased pussies, All pussie looks GREAT, even your ugliest woman will have a fine bush or if shaved as many are now a days ‒ ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
WEB SITE NOT RESPONDING!! again   12/30/2003

hi is it just me or does it seem 9/10 times when you send a email through romancesdiscretos.com it crashes and says WEB SITE NOT RESPONDING!! then you have to do it all again. or its going that slow you get fed up after 10 mins and visit sum cheap tacky free porn sites!! come on romancesdiscretos.com sort your sight out and give us the great service we pay for!! apart from that sum great people on ear..... thanks


0 Comments, 3 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
stuffme2 78 M
3  Articles
GUYS-BUFF UP A LITTLE   12/29/2003

I'M WRITING FOR BI/GAY GUYS AND WOMEN. IF YOU'RE GOING TO TAKE UP MY TIME AND YOURS TO MEET WITH ME, BUFF YOURSELF UP A LITTLE! WHO DO YOU EXPECT TO IMPRESS BY BEING SLOPPY, UNSHAVEN, HUNG OVER AND GENERALLY NASTY? EVEN IF YOU DON'T EXPECT TO "CLICK" WITH SOMEONE, AT LEAST PRESENT YOURSELF IN THE BEST WAY POSSIBLE. EVEN A MEETING WITH SOMEONE WHICH ENDS IN JUST SAYING "NO THANKS" CAN ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 38 Votes ,7.30 Score
not all at romancesdiscretos.com are scams...   12/29/2003

my advice to those who said all profiles at romancesdiscretos.com are scams is to try and try until you get the real ones. i should know this because my wife is an romancesdiscretos.com member and she's really beautiful. even i can't believe that she would discover romancesdiscretos.com on her own until one time she sought my permission for her to have a 1-on-1 with an romancesdiscretos.com guy. she already met 2 romancesdiscretos.com members and fucked them both, i was the one ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 53 Votes ,1.37 Score
Men who want their Cake and Eat it too!!   12/29/2003

This is my first post, and I wouldn't be writing it, if I hadn't read all of the rants thus far. Note: one rave in 100 postings, kind of sad. <br> Honestly, I get quite tired of reading how women are exploiting men on this site, I think it works both ways, and to place the blame on women is just pathetic and untrue. I have read hundreds of profiles, and the majority are married ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 13 Votes ,5.32 Score
carnivore69us 54 M
22  Articles
Re: romancesdiscretos.com mail?!   12/29/2003

It's not just you. I've had the same problem ongoing since I started visiting this site, and it doesn't stop if you're a paying member. I've also seen their messaging system wipe all my messages completely. Explained to me to be a temporary syncronization error that clears up. Yes, it clears up (at least it has to-date), but it's a bit disheartening to go to one's mailbox only to see ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
carnivore69us 54 M
22  Articles
Re: The Age Dicrepancy Issue   12/29/2003

You're not out of line at all in your perspective. In fact, you seem a bit on the mature side in your approach. Sure, there are older men, myself included (I'm in the 35-40 group), who are attracted to younger women (18-25 group), and who would welcome a positive response from somebody your age, but I don't let my desire drive my response...I read her profile to see if she's interested ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
Sirius5500 60 M
4  Articles
RE: romancesdiscretos.com ? For Real or A Real Rip Off   12/28/2003

I checked out your profile. First of all, you're married, so right there that's going to turn some ladies off. The way you describe yourself and all your interests, you sound like a great boyfriend, but are you really going to offer a woman all that? Are you really going to take her to a black tie function? You're married--let's face it, you don't want to date, you want to fuck her! ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 76 Votes ,9.43 Score
romancesdiscretos.com mail?!   12/28/2003

Is it me or is anyone else having a problem with romancesdiscretos.com mail? There have been several occasions where I have sent an email via romancesdiscretos.com to a member and they never get it, or vise versa. I think romancesdiscretos.com needs to add the members email, if they wanted them to, to the profile page. I am a silver member and it annoys me that my messages aren't going through. Just wondering if anyone has had this ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 51 Votes ,9.23 Score
The Age Dicrepancy Issue   12/27/2003

I a 20 year old woman and of an attractive figure. I have noticed that on the list of people viewing me, adding me to their hotlist, and winks, that most are of middle aged men. Now that isn't a problem, but those of them that reply to me and are interested... Why do they get all bent out of shape when I state that I'm not interested in that age bracket. Is not wanting to hop in the sack ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 49 Votes ,7.25 Score
rm_addictive22 55 M
2  Articles
If it sounds too good to be true.........   12/27/2003

It probably is! <br> The concept of this site is great. The actuality of it is not so great. My membership expires soon and I'll not be renewing. It seems like this site has been inundated with people hawking their websites rather than real people just looking for fun. <br> Maybe I am wrong but this has been my experience. YMMV. It was worth the $20 just to see ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 18 Votes ,6.54 Score
rm_addictive22 55 M
2  Articles
Anyone notice?   12/27/2003

I've noticed that all of the "hot" women seem to be Standard members. What a coincidence. Hot women who are dying for sex...but can't contact you. You have to contact them and provide an email address for them. Next thing you know you're directed to some site so they can "verify your age" using your credit card. What a joke. <br> Maybe if Standard members weren't allowed to ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 48 Votes ,8.84 Score
Life after 20 Years (Part 1)   12/26/2003

Prisoner for 20 years, I lived my life in the way you would expect. It really is not a way of life but, perhaps, a complete culture of its own. The only real world ties between you and life on the streets are the strings binding family and friends. For those without ties, in the real world, everyday is a long drawn out twilight. The loneliness finds you, even at you strongest moments. ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 15 Votes ,3.74 Score
pops1041 82 M
1  Article
answering ads   12/24/2003

I agree with the gentleman who was aggravated because women do not respond to e-mails. I can understand if the content is offensive, but, lets face it, some of the ladies' profiles are pretty graphic. It seems to me that a simple, "Thank you, I'm not interested.", would be better and a more courteous answer. Besides, if contact persists, one can always use the blocking feature.


0 Comments, 11 Views, 19 Votes ,7.21 Score
cragrat36 57 M
3  Articles
Standard Membership   12/23/2003

Why as a standard member, when someone pages me in Instant Messenger can't i view their profile.I can understand if I'm Browsing the members pages, but surely if someone pages me, I should be able to see what they look like before I reply to them.


0 Comments, 2 Views, 59 Votes ,9.61 Score
SweetSurprise3 68 F
16  Articles
Why is it...   12/22/2003

....that some people can not take no for an answer? I have gotten so many emails and they say if not interested just be honest, which I always am. So I write back telling them I'm sorry but, I am not interested or don't feel they are right for me. Then usually the begging starts and the follow up email asking why, or please just give me a chance. This really makes me feel very uncomfortable ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
read where my profile is   12/22/2003

I am sick of queers and bi men, either viewing my profile or approaching me. HELLO, it is in the section of men seeking women, NOT Men seeking MEN. I Do not find men attractive in any way, but if thats other peoples life then let them get on with it. Just do me a favour and dont bother me, it is women who i am looking for, nothing else.


0 Comments, 14 Views, 18 Votes ,6.54 Score
rm_gregbern 62 GC
1  Article
Re: Winks and the Hotlist   12/21/2003

I am part of a gay couple (2 men). I often get winked at and even sent a message from male members who, when I look at their profile, don't even mention the possibility of sex with men. What gives? I would never initiate communication with these members, because they are obviously not into the same things as we are. So I normally just ignore them. Should I go ahead and answer them ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 26 Votes ,5.40 Score